Nurturing, Considerate, Generous, People-Pleasing, and Possessive, thoughtful, Compassionate
The desire to be loved (deteriorates into the need to be needed.)
Fear of being unworthy of being loved.
"It's not okay to have your own needs."
"You are wanted."
Weakness: Pride - Unable to acknowledge their own pain and suffering. Deny their needs to 'help' others. Pride in one's own virtue.
Grace: Humility -I cannot meet everyone's needs, and I can bring my needs to God, and let him meet them. God fills my need for love, not others.